
Being apart on Valentine’s Day can be tough, but distance doesn’t have to stop you from celebrating love! Whether you’re miles away from your partner or in a long-distance relationship, there are fun, meaningful, and creative ways to make the day special.
Here are the best long-distance Valentine’s Day ideas to stay connected and make your love feel closer than ever!
1. Plan a Virtual Date Night

Just because you're far away doesn’t mean you can’t have a romantic date!
How to do it:
- Netflix Party – Watch a romantic movie together using platforms like Teleparty or Kast.
- Cook the same meal – Pick a recipe, cook at the same time, and eat together over a video call.
- Game night – Play multiplayer games like Mario Kart, Among Us, or online board games!
- Sing karaoke together – Apps like Smule let you duet love songs in real time!
👉 Bonus: Dress up like you're going on a real date and toast with your favorite drinks!
2. Mail a Love Letter or Care Package

Nothing beats receiving a handwritten letter or a thoughtful surprise in the mail!
What to send:
- Handwritten love letter – Express your feelings in an old-school romantic way.
- A care package – Include their favorite snacks, cute notes, a small gift, or something meaningful.
- Printed photos of you two – Add a cute frame or scrapbook to make it special.
- A scented candle or perfume – So they can smell something that reminds them of you!
👉 Bonus: Spray the letter with your perfume/cologne for a personal touch!
3. Surprise Them with a Heartfelt Video Message

If you can’t be there in person, a personalized video can make their day extra special!
How to do it:
- Record a video montage with clips of your favorite memories together.
- Say what you love about them and why they mean so much to you.
- Add background music to make it more emotional (their favorite song or a romantic tune).
👉 Bonus: Ask friends or family to record messages for them too—it’ll be a sweet surprise!
4. Count Down to Valentine's Day Together

Make the days leading up to Valentine’s special by creating a countdown!
How to do it:
- Send a small gift or letter every day for a week before Valentine's.
- Exchange daily love notes through text or email.
- Do a ‘Top 10’ countdown – Each day, share a reason why you love them!
👉 Bonus: Make a Valentine’s Day advent calendar—open one surprise each day!
5. Wake Them Up with a Virtual Breakfast Date

Start their Valentine’s Day on a sweet note with a virtual morning date!
How to do it:
- Surprise them with a morning video call when they wake up.
- Make breakfast together (or order their favorite coffee to be delivered!).
- Play soft love songs in the background to create the mood.
👉 Bonus: Send a cute text the night before, so they wake up feeling loved!
6. Set Up a Surprise Valentine's Day Countdown Alarm

Make them think of you all day long with surprise alarms and messages!
How to do it:
- Schedule surprise alarms on their phone throughout the day.
- Each alarm shows a cute message or reason why you love them.
- Pick meaningful ringtones (like ‘your song’ or a romantic melody).
👉 Bonus: Time the final alarm with a video call for a big Valentine’s surprise!
7. Plan a Future Trip Together

If you can’t be together now, start planning your next romantic getaway!
How to do it:
- Pick a dream destination (romantic places like Paris, Venice, or the beach!).
- Set a future date to visit each other if possible.
- Create a bucket list of things to do together when you reunite.
👉 Bonus: Make a digital vision board with pictures of your dream trip!
8. Voice Memos Instead of Texts

Instead of just texting, send sweet audio messages throughout the day!
How to do it:
- Record a good morning or goodnight message for them to wake up to.
- Send little voice notes saying ‘I love you’ or sharing something cute about your day.
- Sing a short love song or hum a melody if you're feeling bold!
👉 Bonus: Record a full “podcast” episode of why you love them!
9. Send a Digital Gift Surprise

Even if shipping takes too long, you can instantly send a virtual Valentine’s Day gift!
What to send:
- E-tickets to a virtual concert, show, or event they’ll love.
- An audiobook or Kindle book of something romantic.
- A fun game or subscription service (Netflix, Spotify)
- A digital gift card so they can treat themselves!
👉 Bonus: Send a heartfelt digital greeting card to go with it!
10. Recreate Your First Date – Virtually!

Who says you can’t relive your love story from afar?
How to do it:
- Go to the same place you had your first date (virtually or in person if possible).
- Order the same food you had that day.
- Talk about how you felt when you first met!
👉 Bonus: End the night by planning a future first date redo in person!